Hartalika Teej is a sacred festival celebrated mainly by women in North India, especially in states like Rajasthan, Uttar Pradesh, Madhya Pradesh, and Bihar. It is observed on the Tritiya (third day) of Shukla Paksha in the month of Bhadrapada. The word “Hartalika” is formed from two words: “Harat” (abduction) and “Aalika” (female friend).
The Legend
According to the ancient scriptures, Goddess Parvati was determined to marry Lord Shiva. However, her father, King Himalaya, wanted her to marry Lord Vishnu. When Parvati came to know about this, she was deeply distressed.
Seeing her friend in such sorrow, Parvati’s close companion abducted her and took her deep into the forest so that she could avoid the unwanted marriage with Lord Vishnu. There, Goddess Parvati performed severe penance (tapasya) without food or water, praying with deep devotion to win Lord Shiva as her husband.
Her prayers and fasting continued with great dedication. Finally, Lord Shiva was moved by her devotion and appeared before her, accepting her as his wife. Thus, Parvati became Shiva’s eternal consort as Goddess Gauri (the giver of marital bliss and fortune).
The Ritual & Significance
- Women observe Nirjala Vrat (fast without food and water) on this day.
- They pray for the long life and well-being of their husbands or, if unmarried, for a good husband like Lord Shiva.
- Idols of Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati are made from clay or sand and worshipped with devotion.
- Women dress up in bridal attire, wear green clothes, bangles, and apply henna on their hands as symbols of prosperity.
